Not me, but someone I love.
Not me, but someone I love.
The_Infecte Thu Dec 18, 2014 6:01 pm
June 7th 2011... I will never forget this date.
I was at my friends graduation party. my ex-girlfriend, whom I still love, was at hers. (we are in two separate provinces) We were talking and texting each other, when I had a bit too much to drink, I told her that I loved her, and that I was going to sleep. She said "Please don't fall asleep... I'm going to get into trouble" I didn't know what she meant, but I ended up going to sleep anyways.. I wish I never did.
In the morning I got up, tried to clear my hangover, and I remembered about my phone. So I checked it, I had about 5 missed messages. I checked them all. All were from her. I can't remember what the first 4 said, but the 5th one said "He did it.. Metal(though here she used my real name), he took my virginity"
I got very confused, upset and angry. I called her, her time it was 7 in the morning, she picked up the phone crying, saying "it hurts" "it hurts". I talked to her for hours, trying to get her to tell me who it was. I know the name of him now, and his name, it's permenatly burned into my memory.
I don't think I can get into too much detail, but I'll say what I can without getting too descriptive.
She said "I was trying to get into my car so I could sleep.. and _____ followed me into my car. I tried to get him out, but he wouldn't leave. He kept touching me, and making me feel even more uncomfortable. Then.. I thought if I gave up, he'd give up.. but he didn't.. he forced me into the backseat and then..." She stopped there and started to burst out into tears.
I don't really know what to do about it.. it's been almost a year now, and she's still having flashback and memories of this horrid day.
Can someone give me some advice on what I can do to help her? I already plan to go visit her, but I don't know what I can do when I see her... I really don't want to have her go back into her state, she was very depressed and borderline suicidal. Please, can someone just.. give me some advice on what I can do to help her...
Take care...
-Metal
I was at my friends graduation party. my ex-girlfriend, whom I still love, was at hers. (we are in two separate provinces) We were talking and texting each other, when I had a bit too much to drink, I told her that I loved her, and that I was going to sleep. She said "Please don't fall asleep... I'm going to get into trouble" I didn't know what she meant, but I ended up going to sleep anyways.. I wish I never did.
In the morning I got up, tried to clear my hangover, and I remembered about my phone. So I checked it, I had about 5 missed messages. I checked them all. All were from her. I can't remember what the first 4 said, but the 5th one said "He did it.. Metal(though here she used my real name), he took my virginity"
I got very confused, upset and angry. I called her, her time it was 7 in the morning, she picked up the phone crying, saying "it hurts" "it hurts". I talked to her for hours, trying to get her to tell me who it was. I know the name of him now, and his name, it's permenatly burned into my memory.
I don't think I can get into too much detail, but I'll say what I can without getting too descriptive.
She said "I was trying to get into my car so I could sleep.. and _____ followed me into my car. I tried to get him out, but he wouldn't leave. He kept touching me, and making me feel even more uncomfortable. Then.. I thought if I gave up, he'd give up.. but he didn't.. he forced me into the backseat and then..." She stopped there and started to burst out into tears.
I don't really know what to do about it.. it's been almost a year now, and she's still having flashback and memories of this horrid day.
Can someone give me some advice on what I can do to help her? I already plan to go visit her, but I don't know what I can do when I see her... I really don't want to have her go back into her state, she was very depressed and borderline suicidal. Please, can someone just.. give me some advice on what I can do to help her...
Take care...
-Metal
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